Stories from the streets: shelter defense

I thought I would make these next few blog posts about stories I have heard from Leon or others who heard them from Leon, just to give you a glimpse of what he is doing out there on the streets. This first one is a snapshot of life in a homeless shelter...

One of the most amazing things that Leon has found out while living on the streets is that it is very difficult to get things accomplished when you are working within the confines of shelter schedules. In order to secure a place to sleep for the night, you have to check in as early as 3:30 in the afternoon, and you are not allowed to leave until 5am the next morning, or else you lose your spot. I realized that this gets the homeless off the streets, so the city is happy, but if you are trying to get a job, or get a full days worth of work in, you are basically making a decision to sleep out on the streets, which, according to Leon, is worse than anything! 

So anyway, Leon checks into one particular shelter at 3:30pm and basically has to sit until 7pm when they have dinner, and then 10pm when it's lights out. BOR-RING. So he sits. And he remembers some advice a homeless man gave him on Day 1, that people will try to bully you to see if they smell fear, then intimidate the heck out of you, and therefore maintain their "status" on the streets. When you are at a shelter, any weapons are confiscated, and everyone should be unarmed, so dominance is given to the biggest and strongest, or biggest and strongest personality. 

Leon, as many of you may know, is not a shy person. He is not a wimp, and he is not someone that gets pushed around, but he is also a really nice guy. But on the streets, he cannot be a nice guy, because people out there will see it as weakness. So for his very survival, he must be a tough guy...not a guy looking for trouble,  but someone who keeps to himself, but will hold his own when he needs to. 

That is exactly what he had to do one day at a shelter. He had his signature white short-billed hat on, with his hoodie pulled up over it, and sat there, not talking to anyone, just keeping to himself. When it was dinner time, he went and got a plate and sat down at an empty table. Out of nowhere, a somewhat scrawny-ish man with a loud mouth comes up to Leon, and, in a voice that made sure everyone within a 10 foot radius could hear, said "You better move along, you're sitting in my seat."

A hush fills the dining hall. Leon, without adjusting his posture, head position, or hoodie, in a quiet voice says, "I didn't see a name on it, so why don't you just move along." 

Then the man, who is standing next to Leon who is sitting, pushes his chest into Leon's head, and starts making fists with his hands, and waving them as if he's gearing up for a fight. Everyone is watching at this point, and Leon calmly but forcefully, pushes the man backwards with one hand, turns his body, takes down his hoodie, and stands up very slowly, getting right in the man's face and whispers something that no one else in the room can hear, but it is enough to cause the loud-mouthed man to step back and take a breath, a little shocked. 

From the other side of the room, everyone hears someone else's voice yell, "Awww man! You just HAD to do that to the scariest mother_____ in here, didn't you?" And the silence is then broken and laughter breaks out at the loud-mouth's expense. The man then moves to a different spot without saying another word. And then the same man who just yelled from across the room, makes eye contact with Leon and says "We cool though, right?"

Leon smiles, and calmly says, "As long as you don't pull something stupid like this guy just did, we're cool." And he quietly goes back to eating, while simultaneously watching all the timid, or new guys immediately fill up Leon's table to sit with him so they won't be messed with. 

That's a funny story to illustrate just how Leon is having to adapt his personality and demeanor to survive out on the streets. He cannot be his smiley, outgoing self out there, because he does not want to draw attention to himself. But at the same time, he cannot shy away from confrontation because he will get eaten up by those who are surprisingly weaker and smaller than he is. They make empty threats to maintain status and gain dominance. But I assure you, Leon is not afraid to put his money where his mouth is, and if attacked, I have faith that he could defend himself quite well. 

So he has made a name for himself at the shelters. And as a result, the new guys want to be around him for protection, and the loud-mouths are now too scared to confront him. Once I heard that story, I knew that if anyone could safely survive something like this, it would be Leon. His life experience, personality, and calling has prepared him for such a time as this, and he will emerge victoriously...and no doubt with a story or two!